Five Steps towards a Meaningful and Rewarding Life
If the most important thing you need to know before embarking on a journey is your destination, you should think similarly about the most important journey of all; life. When it comes to living, there could hardly be a person who wouldn’t want to live meaningfully, fulfilling all of life’s roles with excellence. However, to the contrary, most people and organizations take this critical journey for granted. They live from crisis to crisis, floundering like rudderless ships in turbulent waters, putting their prospects of existence and success at stake. Despite the pressures of real life, the stress of making ends meet, and the struggles to keep pace with a world that refuses to slow down, people continue to have dreams and aspirations. Sadly, many people end up wondering if their dreams would ever move from the realm of fantasy to reality. Reflect upon the following questions and answer honestly:
If your answer to any of the above questions is “No”, then you need to rethink your personal and organizational perspective. Recently I met a very successful CEO in Dubai to finalize a Timelenders training for his group. During the meeting, I assessed that the gentleman was going through multiple stresses including health issues and strained family relationships. These were in addition to managing his multi-million dirham business venture. On the face of it, he appeared quite worry free in his palatial, lavishly decorated office in one of the most expensive locations in Dubai, driving a flashy car, and living in a luxurious apartment. His employees benchmarked their own achievements against his, striving to attain similar social and professional stature. Prior to starting a training, I always make sure that I and the other party understood the reasons behind it. Similarly, I discussed the challenges this certain CEO’s team was facing and the specific issues he wished to address. In my third meeting, it dawned upon me that things were not as terrific as they appeared. The CEO was not only facing financial challenges, his personal relationships were in a quagmire too. Upon enquiring further, it was revealed that the CEO was in the habit of making spur of the moment decisions based on sheer ‘instinct’ rather than long term strategic visions to guide his personal or professional affairs. Throughout my training and consulting career, I have met numerous CXOs and corporate professionals with similar challenges. The one thing they all have in common is that none of them admit these serious work-life balance issues that need to be rectified before it’s too late. Although a more detailed approach towards a solution is necessary, following are a few simple ways through which you can still manage to add meaning and some degree of contentment to your life. 1. List Your Roles In Life
2. Envision Each Role Separately
3. Have a Clear Purpose Behind Visions
4. Share Your Visions With the Stakeholders
5. Develop a Roadmap for Visions
If you seriously want to make your life meaningful and rewarding both in this world and beyond, then follow the tested principles described above. Envisioning and creating visions is a painstaking task but a sure shot first step towards a fruitful, purposeful, and gratifying life. A life most people wish they had but don’t know how to take the first step towards. Remember, if you develop the powerful mechanism to focus and concentrate in life through your visions, even the loudest noises of the world won’t distract you. In the words of Napoleon Hill, ‘The world steps aside for a man who knows where he is going’. The world is a critical race of not how much money you can make but a race of living this life for a greater purpose. Since no one is aware of when their finish line will suddenly arrive, we need to act quickly to be prepared to meet it. I look forward to your comments as usual. Feel free to email me if you have any questions.
Yameenuddin Ahmed has been associated with Timelenders since 2004 as one of its key leaders in the area of life transforming trainings, coaching, and counseling. To date, Ahmed has helped thousands of individuals and hundreds of organizations in developing worthy and powerful visions and in bringing order, enhancing character, and improving performance in personal and professional living. (Read more)
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